Back when the semester first started, I told everyone about my journey and how I have to hide from my family and friends. As the semester went on and I joined the LGBTQ+ Student Union at UMBC, It has made me more comfortable with my journey and sexuality. I’ve been to events and I can honestly say that it has made me a more happier person. I went to my first LGBTQ+ speed dating event and that was amazing! I’m still not completely out to my family and friends who are homophobic and transphobic but I’m getting to that point where I want to tell them and not care or have to hide who I am anymore. Of course I love them and want them in my life but if they can’t accept the real me and the person I am becoming then that’s their fault not mine. I’m so sick and tired looking over my shoulder or being afraid of my family finding out and then being judged! LIKE THIS MY LIFE! If you can’t accept the person I am then there is the DOOR!!! I don’t want that Negative Energy in my Life!!! I want to be free!!! I want to live my life and have this HUGE ASS Weight off my shoulder! (Sorry for the swear word Professor) I’m just getting emotional writing this post lol but Honestly.. This is who I am and This my life!! I still have ways to go but I’m slowly learning more about myself every single day. At the end of this, I just you guys to know that not only am I an Ally but a Member!! and It feels soo Damn Good to say that!!!!!!!!! (Again Sorry in advance).
Unruly Bodies 
Congratulations! Its good to hear that you are thriving by delving into the LGBTQ+ community, and I’m glad you’re feeling more accepted overall. Being queer in a nonaccepting environment can be extremely hard, but its important to prioritize your health over other people’s comfort. Life is short, so spend it being who you are and doing what you love. Friends and family are who you choose them to be, they are not permanent. Surround yourself with those who accept you for who you are, and you’ll find yourself continuing to thrive. ❤
Thank you So much. Its a long road that I’m on but I’m loving where its taking me in my life. Its helping me to become a better person and find true Happiness. Thats what we all look for and This journey is making me so happy. I’m going to continue to thrive in the LGBTQ community. Life is very short. The fact that This community is so accepting and caring is amazing to me. Its so hard to find people who truly care about your well being. Your comment means the world to me Jaye. Just writing this comment makes me happy lol
Congratulations!! I am so glad to hear that you are loving to be YOU!<3 All of the hardships you face stand nothing to how strong you're going to continue to grow. Don't ever stop being you because even though we may not "know" each other, I think you are pretty damn awesome. Choose to surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are and life will be a million times better. Sending so much love!