2 jobs, 1 degree.

4 thoughts on “2 jobs, 1 degree.

  1. I’m in a somewhat similar situation, where I’m working over 40 hours each week and am full-time at school. My family has always been impoverished, so even though they’re able to help out with some bills, I don’t have the ability to stop working (and living at home is simply not an option). Burnout is my everyday, just as I’m sure it is yours.

    I’m all too aware that taking advice from someone in a better situation than your own is often more painful than it is helpful, but the person on Twitter is right (rare Twitter W honestly). I had to make the difficult decision to drop a class this semester in order to have time to sleep, which will give me energy and time to do homework, and also the will to keep going. Having to battle myself and overcome the sunken cost fallacy has taken a long time, but I’ve fallen prey to my own overambitions enough times that I know I need to get out before I’m completely pulled underwater. My health is worth more. So is yours.

    I try and take it one day at a time. If I can get through today, maybe I can get through tomorrow, and maybe then I can get through the week, the month, the semester. It’s hard to slow down, because it feels like that beautiful life is right around the corner, but you can’t get there if you overwork yourself so hard your gears stop turning.

    I hope you’re able to carve out time for yourself, even if it’s just a 20 minute nap between classes. You’re worth the time it takes to be comfortable.

  2. I am also exhausted, working almost every day, doing homework every day, just in general feeling the need to be great is exhausting. I feel like I don’t want to complain for the opposite reason you stated, I know there are people doing and accomplishing so much more than I ever will and that makes me feel lackluster for complaining about what seems/feels like the bare minimum. Being tired from other’s expectations is a weird middle ground, I am tired from work but also from thinking that I’m not doing enough work.

  3. Take a moment to celebrate your accomplishments and acknowledge the effort you’re putting in. It’s also crucial to find small moments of respite amidst the chaos. Whether it’s a short walk, a few minutes of meditation, or a hobby you enjoy, these small breaks can contribute to your overall well-being and help in managing the stress.

    Keep your aspirations in focus, but also be kind to yourself in the process. You’re not alone in this struggle, and there are resources and communities that may offer support. Remember, your health and happiness matter just as much as your dedication to your goals.

  4. I completely feel you, working almost everyday is very draining and I feel like I have been burnt out for years. I don’t have time to relax or focus on a different hobby because theres a need for money, whether is tuition or bills. Even in the summer I am working crazy hours to afford the upcoming semester. This has taken a toll on my body and my mental wellbeing. I am trying to find a balance but I think it will be a few years till I find it.

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